Although there are some common
characteristics, most of the reactions or amorous impulses are subjective and
vary from individual to individual, but there would, according to most
psychologists and scientists, three main phases in the love between human
beings: infatuation or (Falling in Love), attraction and attachment, composed
of various elements and stages. [1].
Generally, love begins at the stage of '"infatuation", strong in passion but weak in the other elements. The first peek of this phase would be the sexual instinct. The physical appearance and other factors, it would play a decisive role in selecting potential mates or partners. At this stage, love is purely physical: they appreciate / the Spouse / Partner in its bodily form, in its pure externality. What starts with infatuation can develop into one of the fuller types of love.
Over time, other elements (affection, attachment) can grow and physical passion may decrease in importance, while maintaining that balance the basis of the report. In this phase, known as "attraction", it judges the partners beyond how
it looks, we evaluate several factors such as its culture, its
values. At this stage, therefore, appreciate / the Spouse / Partner in its pure
interiority.
In the phase of '"attachment", the person focuses on a single mate and fidelity becomes important. By now you appreciate / your partner / a in and of itself, so full and complete, stronger of the two previous stages but now all aware of your inner journey. Now they no longer love certain characteristics, be they material or spiritual, but the man / woman as such.
Although humans are not usually sexually monogamous, but it is thought that they are emotionally monogamous: can love (romantically) one person at a time. When a person shares with another a love for a long period of time, develops an "attachment" always stronger towards the other individual.
As regards the possible presence of children, according to recent scientific theories about love, this transition would take place by the attraction to attachment in about 30 months time to complete
a pregnancy and early childhood
care of the child. After this time would diminish the passion, changing love
from romantic love to a simple pleasure in being together. This phase would
last 10 to 15 years until the children reached adolescence or later (with
considerable variation from culture to culture).
Usually a report is based on several factors (love, affection, respect, common interests, sexual attraction) has a better chance of success than one based solely on sexual attraction. This "determinism of love", function solely to the care of the child, has been criticized from many quarters, particularly by advocates of emotional intelligence.
The love and fear of losing the person or thing loved, often accompanied by a feeling of protection and / or jealousy toward the object of that feeling. In some cases the disease takes on love, when is the cause that prevents the conduction of a normal life, or the trigger of an unhealthy attachment.
Generally, love begins at the stage of '"infatuation", strong in passion but weak in the other elements. The first peek of this phase would be the sexual instinct. The physical appearance and other factors, it would play a decisive role in selecting potential mates or partners. At this stage, love is purely physical: they appreciate / the Spouse / Partner in its bodily form, in its pure externality. What starts with infatuation can develop into one of the fuller types of love.
Over time, other elements (affection, attachment) can grow and physical passion may decrease in importance, while maintaining that balance the basis of the report. In this phase, known as "attraction", it judges the partners beyond how
it looks, we evaluate several factors such as its culture, its
values. At this stage, therefore, appreciate / the Spouse / Partner in its pure
interiority.In the phase of '"attachment", the person focuses on a single mate and fidelity becomes important. By now you appreciate / your partner / a in and of itself, so full and complete, stronger of the two previous stages but now all aware of your inner journey. Now they no longer love certain characteristics, be they material or spiritual, but the man / woman as such.
Although humans are not usually sexually monogamous, but it is thought that they are emotionally monogamous: can love (romantically) one person at a time. When a person shares with another a love for a long period of time, develops an "attachment" always stronger towards the other individual.
As regards the possible presence of children, according to recent scientific theories about love, this transition would take place by the attraction to attachment in about 30 months time to complete
a pregnancy and early childhood
care of the child. After this time would diminish the passion, changing love
from romantic love to a simple pleasure in being together. This phase would
last 10 to 15 years until the children reached adolescence or later (with
considerable variation from culture to culture).Usually a report is based on several factors (love, affection, respect, common interests, sexual attraction) has a better chance of success than one based solely on sexual attraction. This "determinism of love", function solely to the care of the child, has been criticized from many quarters, particularly by advocates of emotional intelligence.
The love and fear of losing the person or thing loved, often accompanied by a feeling of protection and / or jealousy toward the object of that feeling. In some cases the disease takes on love, when is the cause that prevents the conduction of a normal life, or the trigger of an unhealthy attachment.
